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Ejaculation And Orgasms Comparisons |
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![]() Once the level of stimulation has reached such a point that the final phase of sexual arousal is initiated, your body prepares itself for the great climax in all kinds of ways. Blood pressure goes up, your heart rate rises, your breathing becomes deeper and heavier, and involuntary contractions of muscles throughout your body may occur, a phenomenon which could be interpreted as a drive to thrust deeper into your partner's body, thereby increasing the likelihood that your semen will be deposited successfully inside her. A man may wrap his arms involuntarily around his partner and hold on tightly, another reflex which I think derives from our animal ancestry - the last thing you want is your partner escaping at the moment of ejaculation, after all the effort you put into getting your semen inside her! I know this doesn't sound very romantic, but we can't entirely escape the fact that sex evolved for reproduction, and much of this historical legacy still determines how we do it, even when we do it for pleasure. Immediately prior to the orgasm itself, seminal fluid builds up in the bulb of the prostate gland. This produces that familiar sense of impending ejaculation - one of the finest moments of being a man. Then, at the moment of orgasm, the testicles are drawn up close to the body, the urinary tract to the bladder closes so that semen has to find its way out of the body through the penis, rather than being passed back into the bladder, and the series of muscular contractions which actually constitutes the orgasm takes place. These contractions occur in the muscles at the base of the penis, the muscles of the penis shaft, around the anal sphincter, the pubococcygus muscle and the muscles of the rectum - they contract about eight times, maybe slightly more or less, at eight-tenths of a second intervals, and as they do so the seminal fluid containing sperm is expelled. These contractions may lead to semen shooting out or just dribbling, depending on the condition of the muscles, how long it is since you last ejaculated, and the volume of fluid which has accumulated during the earlier phases of your sexual arousal. ![]() Orgasms, however, do vary. They aren't all earth-shattering events! There are many reasons why they aren't all as good as each other, of course. Perhaps one of the main reasons is that they do involve the whole body, and therefore simple things like levels of tiredness, fatigue, relaxation and stress will all have an impact on the intensity of the experience. Obviously, how aroused or randy you are feeling will also have an impact on your level of excitement and the intensity of the sensations during sex. One indicator of the intensity of a person's orgasm is the degree to which their facial muscles undergo contortions or the loudness of their involuntary cries at the moment they come.
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